Having Girlfriend Issues : What should I do ?

I met my girlfriend 2 1/2 months ago at a part time call center gig that I took while waiting on something to open up. I'm 26 and she is 22 and I absolutely love everything about her. She is a Christian girl that takes it very seriously and since we met I have quit smoking and drinking completely. I left the call center a gig roughly a month ago to take on an Engineering consultant position, which I am very excited about straight out of college. However, as a person who hasn't dated a lot in the past my emotion or completely wrapped up to this girl. To make a long story short I might have spent close to $800 on breakfast/lunch/dinner alone to show my love. I had to go out of town this weekend and had flowers/candy sent to her at work just to cheer her up. She is a 3rd year premed major and between working full time and taking some pretty off the wall courses I understand she needs her space but at times I feel like I'm going above and beyond to please and no love in return. She believes in the whole no sex until marriage deal which I am cool with so we make up for it with excessive kissing holding and a lot other stuff that will make a guys balls turn blue. I'm happy though and being Christian I respect her values and would like to take mine more seriously. Last night I get back in town and log on to Facebook which we have been communicating a lot through and her profile is completely gone. I sent her a text hoping to speak with her last night before I went to sleep and she writes me back stating she needs space to clear her head and that she will catch up with me later. What does that mean? I know she is struggling in school which means a lot to her but after I spent almost $200 on candy and flowers that is how she shows her appreciation. I'm not a bad looking guy and I can go other places easy - but I love her personality. I thought about never calling her again and waiting for her to call me. Sometimes I wish she was more vocal in regards to what she is going through

Having Girlfriend Issues : What should I do ?
I do not believe she cares for you the same way you do for her, but she loves the attention and affection... May want to keep your options open and tell her that too, be honest.. But not too dedicated..
Reply:that means she's riding dirty with some dude who isnt a complete wuss. time to man up johhny.
Reply:Seems like you're trying to BUY her love and she's finding the constant attention a little smothering. Try backing off a bit and talking to her about it. A woman whose love you can only gain with a check book is NOT a woman you want. She's a busy chick. Give her her space and just be there for her. Send flowers or candy, like, ONCE a week. Keep in touch but don't be obsessive. Girls do NOT find needy guys attractive.
Reply:sounds like this girl was just messing you around,seeing how much she could get out of you and you just rolled over and that is why she is no longer in the picture. women like men who are strong and will not bend over to quick to their demands it sounds like you were not enough of a challenge. forget her and try to be more of a man in future.



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