Friday, November 6, 2009

Should I tell her I still love her? Its been almost 2 years. I would like a second chance.?

Dated a girl for 5years, lived with her for 3. The last year of the relationship I lost my job and stayed home for a few months not working, I still payed my portion of the bills/rent. We broke up because she was angry that I played world of warcraft the majority of the time. She felt I took her for granted and didnt do enough with her. I admit I did these things. I feel terrible for them. She broke up with me on a sunday. The next day i told her how I felt and bought her some flowers. At this point I think she was set in her ways to leave. She came over the following weekend and talked. Before she got there I wrote her a letter about how I felt, why I thought we should be together, and why I loved her. I placed each page of the letter on the stairs leading into the 2nd floor of our apt with a rose. I spelt out I love you in post it notes on the wall. Each note had something I loved/appreciated/adored about her. I saw that she was touched by all this.


But still she gave no 2nd chance

Should I tell her I still love her? Its been almost 2 years. I would like a second chance.?
She's done. If I were you, I'd learn from whatever caused the breakup (because the issue has to be bigger than you played video games) and meet someone who wasn't so intolerant. Maybe it was that you didn't have a job... which means the next time things went wrong, she'd bail on you again. You don't need someone like that, do you? Find someone who's there for you when things are bad as well as when they're going good.
Reply:u r just the sweetest thing. but why do u guys have to wait for didadter to strike before u do all these thangz. be persistent and let her no u will do away with the game [how old r u anyway]. dont say it, get her back and then get a newer version of d game. and hope that there isnt another guy in d picture, and pray this guy loves world warcraft better than u do, or else u r burnt toast
Reply:.Ever heard of too little too late. Girls don't do lazy lay abouts and they defo don't do world of war craft. Get off yr lazy *** and find another girl. I'm thinking of the dumb blonde variety, who may not be just as astute as your previous one
Reply:okay so option B...send her a letter describing all the things u despise about her haha and then little post etss all over her door with this is why u hate u **** all over it haha then run cause she might call u a stalker but its soo worth it haha stay cool keep it real xox
Reply:Don't force it. You tried and she still moved on. If you keep trying, you will lose your dignity and self worth. Find someone that cares for you without having to be begged.
Reply:More Than Likely She Thinks That The Computer Out Ranked Her...


You Have To Go To Serious Lengths To Get Her Back....


Like Throwing The Computer Out The Window
Reply:then she's definetely over you. stop trying because she just wants the attention. move on.
Reply:You lost me at world of warcraft... nerd.
Reply:Call her and find out... You have nothing to loose.
Reply:DAAAAAMMMMMMM, Sorry, but you know what they say, most of us don't realize what we got til it's gone................ Good Luck:-)
Reply:well...she definently thinks that u took her for granted!! and it does seem that way!! i see where she is coming from!! u wouldn't want a gf that just sit around the house while u were at work!! would u?
Reply:... it might just be a little too long..... now one of the reasons the stuff you did didnt' work a few days and weeks after the break up is b/c you weren't doing those things before the break up to her you just did those things b/c it all hit the fan.... women expect their men to take care of things and them even though you were paying your part of bills you really weren't paying your part of attention......... are you still friends with this girl... tell her how you feel now.... I mean what can it hurt... and admit to her about how wrong and immature you were....
Reply:That's touching man, but if you did all that, leave her. Unless you can find some crazy way to win her back, just forget about it, these girls are harsh these days. Don't beat yourself up about it either, after you did all this its hard to say you didn't pay much attention to her. I don't mean to be sexist, but you are the man in this relationship, so be it. Try once more and if she doesn't give you the chance, then bail out. It will only cause you more pain. Make her realize she needs you, and, in essence, give HER the second chance. BUT THIS IS ENTIRELY UP TO YOU! Your the only one who should make your choices, I'm just bored and on the internet.
Reply:It seems to me that she made up her mind two years ago. She has moved on.





You need to move on, too. It's not going to happen. You shouldn't waste your time, energy, and emotions dwelling on something that just isn't going to happen.



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