HELP!?!?! Did i cheat or not?!?!?

ok i am going out w/ the most wonderful guy in the world %26amp; he lives in milsap while i live in euless 1 1/2 hours apart %26amp; friday night Tyler one of my guy friends kissed me on the cheek %26amp; i got pissed %26amp; pushed him away %26amp; told him to never talk to me again well then he shows up at my door last night w/ flowers %26amp; i was home alone %26amp; i was yelling and screaming @ him but he kept talking %26amp; rambeling on about how much he loves me %26amp; wants to be w/ me then he closes my front door behind him %26amp; like pins me against the wall %26amp; tries to make out w/ me untill i kicked him in the balls %26amp; he fell then i called Curtis (one of my huge guy friends) come over %26amp; deal w/ him but do i tell my bf or not? was i techniqally cheating?? PLEASE HELP!!!

HELP!?!?! Did i cheat or not?!?!?
1) No you did not


2) Get a restraining order


3) That is called A%26amp;B (assault %26amp; battery)


4) Attempted kidnapping


5) Unlawfull imprisonment


6)) possible attempted rape


7) A real man (like myself) knows wheh no means no


8) If he really is your BF tell him, he'll love you more for your honesty


9) Time to be agrown up %26amp; pick your friend or the BF one has to go...forever


10) How did this man-reject get into your house anyway?


If you let him in, then maybe your subconscience want'ed to know what would happen.
Reply:It's OK! You didn't cheat on him, kissing someone on the cheek can be considered a greeting, or a goodbye. I do it all the time to friends and family. He was in the wrong when he knew you already had a boyfriend, and when he tried to force you to do something you didn't want to do. Good job though, with the defending yourself, and for calling for help. I think you should tell your boyfriend, he'll understand, and maybe even 'talk' to this kid that kissed ya!
Reply:lol, don't sweat it. Sure you can tell your boyfriend but it isn't cheating. You were basically a step away from be raped and you were sexually assaulted. He kissed you without you wanting it, that is an unwanted sexual advance. If you want your BF to beat this person up then tell him, if you don't want that then don't tell him. But, don't worry about it YOu didn't cheat.
Reply:No, you were not cheating. You did not bring on or ask for Tyler's attention. Also, since you did not respond or allow him liberties, you weren't cheating. I would tell your boyfriend just so this Tyler can't give his own story and mess up your relationship. Since you did nothing wrong, you shouldn't worry about what your boyfriend will say. He will actually trust you more since you will be up front with him and what is going on.
Reply:Aw hun! I'm sure your boyfriend would be proud of you! If Tyler is one of your boyfriend's friends, actually, I would tell you he came on to you. I wouldn't tell him exactly what Tyler did, only because your boyfriend may end up in jail...if you know what I mean. You did everything you could to get the guy away from you, and that's not cheating at all UNLESS you let something you aren't telling us happen. I think you did the right thing and you weren't cheating! You should be proud of yourself because you could have easily had let it happen with Tyler.
Reply:No you did not cheat on your bf..... he was forcing himself on you trying to kiss you and pinning you down..... if you gave in which you didnt then that would of been called cheating...... my friend has the same problem...... this guy wont leave her alone and he knows she has a bf and he said he dont care..... her bf knows and wants to kick his *** lol so yes I would be honest and let him know what he did ....... so that your bf dont hear it from someone else but no dont worry you didnt cheat
Reply:No, you did not cheat at all. You should tell your boyfriend this because keeping something hidden like this from him, will only give the impression that you're trying to, "hide" something from him. Which then can lead to mistrust and a whole lot of other bad things. So, tell him sometime when you two can be alone, and tell him what happened. Make sure you explain it in detail and make it flow along smoothly.
Reply:u were NOT cheating.. u didnt kiss him back..and u arent presuing a realationship with that freak!





TELL ur bf! cuz the story could get mixed up and back to him.. TELL HIM.. and if he gets mad at you.. then hes a freak! becuse u knew not to do that with tyler!








that tyler is a freak! STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM HIM AS POSSIBLE!! and if he keeps coming to ur door.. get a restraing order on him.. cuz it sounds like hes trying to rape yoU!
Reply:You didn't cheat, the guy has an obsession with you that he needs to deal with. Telling your boyfriend might worsen the situation. But if you don't tell your boyfriend it'll be even worse cuz he'll wonder what else you "might" be keeping from him. I'd try to choose a relax setting and tell him exactly what happened, don't sugar-coat anything. Just say EXACTLY what happened.
Reply:well if everything went along as you described it then you weren't cheating, but if it pass through your mind the possibility of making love to him then yes you were cheating because you did wanted to happen but were afraid of the consequences. yeah tell your boyfriend the true,dont be afraid of keeping the truth inside b/c then your bf will find out and ask you why didnt you tell him.
Reply:i would like to know why you fill like you are cheating unless you you gave this guy a reason to kiss you. i say no you did not cheat an as for as your friend tyler goes he is not your friend a all he has no repect for you at all. yes i would tell my bf if i was you, better you tell him than someone else. you did the right thing. good luck.....
Reply:You so did not cheat on your man. I would tell him exactly what happened. If he is anything like my boyfriend he will want to kick this guys a$$. What you did was being truthful to your guy and not a lot of woman will do that especially when the guy gives them flowers and tells them that they love them. And to keep a long distance relationship working is a big accomplishment on its own. Congrats!!!
Reply:Hell no you didn't cheat. That's nowhere near cheating. As long as you didn't kiss him back or do anything sexual with him, you're straight. You can tell your bf because you did not do anything wrong, but you need 2 get rid of that Tyler dude from your life if he's acting like that.
Reply:of course not. he tried to force you into cheating, and you tried to stop him every step of the way. good thing you called curtis, tell your boyfriend and tell him you love him. also, for your sake, stay away from that other creep, only trouble lies in that direction. wish you the best!
Reply:No, You weren't cheating. You should be a little more careful when allowing men into your home, though. You never know what their intentions are. Things could have turned out alot worse than they did. Of course you should tell your boyfriend. Maybe he will put the fear of God into this ill-mannered jerk.
Reply:no you did not cheat because he forsed himself on you and you did the right thing by telling him to get away. it is not your falt so no worrys. about telling your bf.....you should tell him and explain what had happened and what you did. that is what i would want you to do if we were dating.
Reply:No dont worry about it, you didnt cheat. its not your fault that guy is in love with you. but you should definatley tell your boyfriend, that way he dosent think your hiding something.. he will find out one way or another anyways.


plus if he loves you he will understand :)
Reply:no you didnt cheat because technically you didnt do anything with the other guy. if you would have encouraged him to kiss you then it would have been cheating.
Reply:You were definitely not cheating. He was an asshole that wouldn't leave you be even when you told him to, and you shouldn't be embarrassed or scared to tell your boyfriend. You did nothing wrong, and he'll appreciate your honesty!
Reply:You did not cheat!!! the dude pinned you against the wall friend or not i would consider this assault if you told you bf anything tell him you had no control over it and you kicked the jerk in the balls... it so was NOT cheating!!
Reply:tell your boyfriend


i told mine when my friend evan tried to kiss me


and he was happy because you actually like.. made an effort to stop him


he'll be happy, dont keep it from him


i mean, you can if you want
Reply:no it would only be cheating if you encouraged him, but you didn't, so no, thats not cheating





stiffler, you're a retard and i want to punch you in the face
Reply:no u didnt do anything wrong at all...under the circumstances u handled it exactly right...


i wouldnt talk to that friend again after the stunt he pulled...





yea i would tell your boyfriend but tell him how u handled the situation and he will b proud of u...





dont keep secrets from him
Reply:tell you bf you did nothing wrong you did not cheat . not only was idot he needs to learn to take no for a answer before he goes to jail for rape and by the way this guy is NOT a friend
Reply:tell your bf the whole story and if it really happened that way he'll feel badly. you may have lead him on but you didnt cheat. give your bf the entire story and youll be off the hook.
Reply:If you was up front with this guy that you had no interest in him like that and if he kissed you and you did not kiss him back then no you did not cheat. Tell your boyfriend what happened asap.
Reply:hell yeah tell your bf cause if he is anything like me he wants to know were this dick hole is so he can kick his *** so hard that his foot comes out his ******* face


oh and your not cheating at all


the dick just need to get his face broken
Reply:no!!!! u were definatey not cheating!!!!!! and technically, that was rape. tell your bf cause if you dont and he finds out, he might think there is something to hide. just be honest and keep away from that creepo tyler!!!
Reply:Look girl...nearly getting raped isn't considered cheating; however, don't you think you are putting yourself in bad situations...that guy is obviously an idiot...


Take care girl...;)
Reply:NO you didn't cheat. You had no control over what that other guy was doing and you didn't come on to him so no. You should tell your bf, I'm sure he wont think you were cheating either.
Reply:No you didn't cheat on him because you didn't allow him to go further.




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