Why do guys do that??

Ok, so 2007 Valentines Day comes around and he does nothing! Been together 3 yrs now - I came from a single life %26amp; into an instant family with 2 kids. We never really had a chance to be a couple. So I make the effort, not just on Valentines Day but everyday - thats how it should be.





BUT at the end of the day its nice, warm %26amp; fuzzy to be remembered on Valentines Day.





So I write deep %26amp; meaning stuff in a card, get a bear and leave it on the bed before I leave for work - whoop-de-do! I get a 'thankyou, that was most unexpected'


THEN after work I give him his real gift - an elusive wall-hanging we had wanted for ages %26amp; I managed to get.


To top it off I picked up his favourite magazine so he could relax %26amp; read.





What did I get??? NOTHING... ZILICH





And he just used the line 'I dont feel I need to send you flowers on Valentines day, it should be whenever'





Trouble is...... there has NEVER been a WHENEVER!





Why? Why, do men do that? Whats their logic?

Why do guys do that??
maybe because Val. Day is just one more occasion to stick it to a man.
Reply:well 1st you have to remember who you truly are showing your love too..on Valentines= flower and card companies


Halloween= candy manufacturors


New years day...alcohol companies


Easter= Egg producers


Christmas= toy manufacturors.............etc. etc.


Because you didn't get "something"on a particular day, doesn't mean he doesn't love you or isn't ever going to buy you anything else.....I'm afraid that you and a lot of other people have fallen for the AD-MAN....what if he buys you something next week...does that mean less???? think about it
Reply:Not all men do do that. It is yours who does that, for one. Are you not ever appreciated? Might be time to have a chat about what this means for you. You might not be so well suited after all. Only you can weigh this.
Reply:In the famous words of Gerg Berendht: He's just not that into you... Time to move on, girlfriend! ;) There are BETTER fish in the sea.....



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